Tag: wellbeing

  • Tips to deal with coming back to work after a holiday.

    For me, a holiday is great and I love to cut work ties, relax and forget about clients and everything sitting on my desk. However, about two days before I know my break is coming to an end, I start to get that feeling! The slight dread and fear of what lies on my desk and in my email. Returning back after a long break can feel daunting, especially if you have a lot of work to catch up on. Having done it a few times, here are some things I’ve picked up.

    1. Schedule a buffer day.

    If you can, try to schedule a buffer day before you officially return to work. To me, this is a day where no meetings or calls are scheduled. It is a day which I can use to ease in, look through post, review colleagues notes on files and start to review emails. I can start to compile a to do list, schedule my diary and organise my desk. Trust me, if you can put in a buffer day, do it!

    2. Check in with your team.

    During the first day back, check in with those who were looking after your files and other members of your team. This will help you to get up to speed on what’s been happening while you were away and to identify any urgent tasks that need your attention.

    3. Prioritise your tasks.

    Once you know what needs to be done, it’s important to prioritise your tasks. This will help you to focus on the most important things and to avoid getting overwhelmed. It will also help you identify which clients need that urgent call back and which can wait a little bit longer.

    4. Set realistic expectations.

    It’s important to set realistic expectations for yourself when you’re trying to get caught up on work after a holiday. Don’t try to do everything at once, or you’ll just end up feeling stressed and overwhelmed as well as making mistakes which you wouldn’t ordinarily make.

    5. Take breaks.

    Don’t be tempted to try to do everything at once and neglect coffee breaks or lunch. Believe me this does not help you, you end up not being able to concentrate, loosing focus and just not feeling great!

    6. Ask for help.

    If you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t be afraid to ask for help from your team members or your manager. Don’t be a martyr! Get help, you will get to return the favour when they go on leave.

    Also, some side notes;

    • Use a to-do list to keep track of your tasks.
    • Set deadlines for yourself and stick to them.
    • Break down large tasks into smaller, more manageable ones.
    • Take advantage of technology to help you stay organised.
    • Don’t be afraid to delegate tasks to others.

  • Lets start from the Beginning!

    Part 1 – From then to now…

    It all started in 2003 – well that is when I got my law degree anyway! I can’t say that I worked super hard to get it – I did what I needed to do and got what I needed. As soon as I had graduated, I got a job as a Paralegal/Legal Executive in a city firm which I hated. There was so much competition that the relationship and environment between paralegals was toxic. Everyone trying to get one up on each other, stepping over one another and being ruthless to make themselves noticed by the Partners for when the time came that the application and interview process opened for Training Contracts. It put a very bitter taste in my mouth and I decided not to pursue it. I did not want to be that “cut throat” and lower myself to the level some had dropped too. Perhaps this all would have been different if I had had contacts in the Legal World and knew somebody who could have taken me on to mentor me. The problem was, that I was inexperienced, naïve and just didn’t have a clue!

    I left the legal world, and did other things, lived in other countries and tried new areas of work. I grew both professionally and mentally and after some time, it was my wife who encouraged me to go back into the legal world. I did. It was a rough 3/4 years in a firm that was as ruthless as the former paralegals I had escaped from! Perhaps worse! I stuck it, I did not sacrifice my own morals and did things right and proper. It was noticed a number of occasions, and I was not penalised for it. In fact, as time went on, I progressed through the firm, becoming quite high up. It was then that I decided to start my training contract and finish my practical training and qualify.

    After two years of working full time, a COVID pandemic and some bumps along the way, I qualified as a solicitor. One of the biggest reliefs and proudest moments of my life besides the usuals of marriage, children etc. etc.

    So that is a very quick overview of the then and brings us to now! I am a practicing solicitor in the area of Residential Conveyancing, Private Client and Civil Litigation. Quite a varied range of areas, each with their own joys, pains and challenges!

    The question is – what is the aim of this blog? I have read that it is a good way of decompressing! Writing about elements of your life in written form and thinking through it as you write can be therapeutic – so I am told. Perhaps I will see. Of course the big thing is that it is in a public forum – a danger, perhaps a risk! I don’t know. Time will tell. Maybe it will help others who read this who can learn from my mistakes, laugh with me at some of the situations I get myself into and who knows – see where it goes.

    Until next time…